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Tag: fetlife

Getting Involved

What is Fetlife

Badger Feb 21, 2015 Tagged with fetlife

If you are new to the BDSM community you may have seen the website Fetlife listed. It may be intimidating or you may not be familiar about it, but it has become an invaluable tool for those involved in BDSM. …

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Community

The Importance of Vetting for Safety on FetLife

BlondJamesBlond Feb 20, 2015 Tagged with Education, fetlife, Safety, Vetting

I am increasingly concerned by the amount of messages I have been receiving lately from those new to FetLife (mostly young males), offering to do “anything” in an effort to fulfill their fantasies of being a submissive to a Dominant …

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Community

The Many Names Of A Kinkster

Badger Feb 18, 2015 Tagged with bdsm, fetlife, introductions, name, Scene Name

What is in a name? It is a very cliche question, however when it comes to the BDSM scene it is a relevant one. Most people, when they first get involved in the BDSM community, choose how they want to …

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