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The Importance of Vetting for Safety on FetLife

By BlondJamesBlond Posted on February 20, 2015 Posted in Community Tagged with Education, fetlife, Safety, Vetting

I am increasingly concerned by the amount of messages I have been receiving lately from those new to FetLife (mostly young males), offering to do “anything” in an effort to fulfill their fantasies of being a submissive to a Dominant …

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The Many Names Of A Kinkster

By Badger Posted on February 18, 2015 Posted in Community Tagged with bdsm, fetlife, introductions, name, Scene Name

What is in a name? It is a very cliche question, however when it comes to the BDSM scene it is a relevant one. Most people, when they first get involved in the BDSM community, choose how they want to …

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