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Category: Communication

Communication

Safewords- What they are and Why they work

Lucy Marshall Feb 21, 2015

We all have limits, we all have good days, we all have bad days.  Basic communication is a valuable skill and we all need to use it. Sometimes, though, we need to have a word that goes beyond basic communication …

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Communication

Safewording 101

Juilet Feb 20, 2015 Tagged with communication, negotiation, Safewords

When you first started exploring BDSM, someone probably told you you need a safeword–a word you can use to stop your play partner from doing something you don’t want to do. During a BDSM scene, the bottom consents for the …

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Communication

Coming Out Kinky to a Partner

Lana Kazanova Feb 20, 2015 Tagged with Coming Out, communication, Kinky

Accepting one’s self is one of the hardest things we will ever do as kinksters. Many of us spent years anguishing over our “different desires” and what they mean. But now that we are embracing who we are or what …

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Communication

50 Shades Of Curious – Communication

Bo Blaze Feb 18, 2015 Tagged with 50 shades, bo blaze, communication, contracts, negotiation

This is an excerpt from the book: “50 Shades of Curious: BDSM for Beginners” by Bo Blaze COMMUNICATION Communication is one of my very favorite subjects. I’ve taught a class called Communication, Communication, Communication aka Communication in the Scene for many …

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