So, you found a munch through Fetlife and you are planning to go- remember, it is just a meal. Dress your level of normal. There can easily be a traditional family of five over in the booth on the other …

Preparing for my first Munch- and forming a reasonable expectation Read more »

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This is a very common concern for people coming in to the community. If you do see someone at an event you know you have a few options. You say hi or you can just pretend not to know each …

What happens if I meet someone I know at a munch or party? Read more »

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The chance of finding a young, handsome, dominant billionaire with a helicopter and a fleet of Audis probably isn’t realistic.  I know… I’m sorry. Most likely, if that person did exist (with a distinct lack of childhood abuse and trauma), …

So… I found kink after reading 50 Shades of Grey, now what? Read more »

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When you first go to a BDSM club or play party, there are some basic things you should know.  Here’s a basic primer: Street Legal: show up to the door wearing clothing that you would be comfortable in when walking …

I found a BDSM club and I’m going- What should I expect? Read more »

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