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“Safe Sane And Consensual” A Proposed Definition

By Chris M Posted on February 21, 2015 Posted in BDSM Tagged with bdsm, Safety, SSC

The mandate that BDSM should be “Safe Sane and Consensual” (SSC) is SM’s most famous rubric, and is known and accepted in virtually every camp and corner of the SM community. At its best, SSC encourages us to monitoring safety, …

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The Importance of Vetting for Safety on FetLife

By BlondJamesBlond Posted on February 20, 2015 Posted in Community Tagged with Education, fetlife, Safety, Vetting

I am increasingly concerned by the amount of messages I have been receiving lately from those new to FetLife (mostly young males), offering to do “anything” in an effort to fulfill their fantasies of being a submissive to a Dominant …

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