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Author: Lana Kazanova

Lana Kazanova has been doing this thing we call BDSM since 1998 when she found the scene in Atlanta. She has been active in her local Washington DC scene since 2002. Lana identifies as a sadomasochist and an opportunist.

BDSM Education: What is it? -AND- Where do I find it?

By Lana Kazanova Posted on February 21, 2015 Posted in Getting Involved Tagged with Education

Ah, so you’ve made it out to a couple of munches and your first play party. Good job! Now what? Likely you witnessed and discussed some pretty cool things, right? Right! Likely you’re really excited. You want to try some …

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Coming Out Kinky to a Partner

By Lana Kazanova Posted on February 20, 2015 Posted in Communication Tagged with Coming Out, communication, Kinky

Accepting one’s self is one of the hardest things we will ever do as kinksters. Many of us spent years anguishing over our “different desires” and what they mean. But now that we are embracing who we are or what …

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