One of the most common questions for single people coming into the scene new is: “How do I meet people”. For some naturally charismatic, outgoing extroverts this is easy, people just flock naturally to them. For most of us that …
When you first started exploring BDSM, someone probably told you you need a safeword–a word you can use to stop your play partner from doing something you don’t want to do. During a BDSM scene, the bottom consents for the …
Accepting one’s self is one of the hardest things we will ever do as kinksters. Many of us spent years anguishing over our “different desires” and what they mean. But now that we are embracing who we are or what …
This is an excerpt from the book: “50 Shades of Curious: BDSM for Beginners” by Bo Blaze COMMUNICATION Communication is one of my very favorite subjects. I’ve taught a class called Communication, Communication, Communication aka Communication in the Scene for many …