Enthusiastic Consent and Negotiation
I want people I play with to be really interested in doing something with me. I don’t just want the moaning and groaning response of “well, i guess that may be acceptable if it is what you think I’ll want”. …
Tag: negotiation
Safewording 101
When you first started exploring BDSM, someone probably told you you need a safeword–a word you can use to stop your play partner from doing something you don’t want to do. During a BDSM scene, the bottom consents for the …
50 Shades Of Curious – Communication
This is an excerpt from the book: “50 Shades of Curious: BDSM for Beginners” by Bo Blaze COMMUNICATION Communication is one of my very favorite subjects. I’ve taught a class called Communication, Communication, Communication aka Communication in the Scene for many …