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Author: Bo Blaze

Bo Blaze is a PCC certified “Alternative” life coach; specializing in Alternative Sexual Relationships & Non-Traditional Lifestyles. He is the author of the bestselling book “50 Shades of Curious: BDSM for Beginners” and is a nationally known expert on Kink, Lifestyle BDSM, Ethical Non-Monogamy (Polyamory), the Fetish World and LGBT issues. He has taught and lectured all over the country at hundreds of universities, conferences and various alternative events.

He is the winner of the 2011 Pantheon of Leather President’s Award and has helped thousands learn to practice Safe, Sane & Consensual BDSM over the last 10 years, as Novice Group Facilitator & Board Member Emeritus, for The Eulenspiegel Society (TES), the oldest & largest BDSM support and education group in the Country. Contact: www.AlternativeLifeCoach.com Book: www.50shadesofcurious.com/50soc

Communication

50 Shades Of Curious – Communication

Bo Blaze Feb 18, 2015 Tagged with 50 shades, bo blaze, communication, contracts, negotiation

This is an excerpt from the book: “50 Shades of Curious: BDSM for Beginners” by Bo Blaze COMMUNICATION Communication is one of my very favorite subjects. I’ve taught a class called Communication, Communication, Communication aka Communication in the Scene for many …

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