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    • What happens if I meet someone I know at a munch or party?
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Who is Blacksage81? Well that is a question I have tried to answer more than a few times in the past few years. I am straight male dominant, a writer, a budding sadist, an unrepentant nerd, shy introvert, deep thinker, and an all around swell guy. I am fairly new to the scene, still new enough that the mistakes that I have made still sting in memory, but I have been around long enough to have an idea of how much I do not know. Join me and other kinky folk on our journey through the scene, I make no promises but you will never be the same again.
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Do’s, Don’ts and Opinions from a Single Male Dominant

Blacksage81 Feb 21, 2015 Tagged with bdsm, Dominance, Education, Getting Started, Male Dominant, Mentor

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